Easy to say not so easy to do.

Here is a simple words that parents always teach and try to make this become an attitude and become a behavior to their children deep inside. But like the others goodness material to teach, this just become a part of the theory when they are growth up, and then be honest is just a story a part of the hero. [...]

Learn from the past, learn from the greatest people who really on it, and we will realize than just knowing.

And after all, if all of this are worth, we must struggle on it, will we?

This picture remind me a couples years ago, when I was as student at university and live in boardinghouse. The differences is the rule and the way they charges.

As a student of university and life away from parents, most of us have their freedom, it doesn’t a matter anymore when they got home late or go away outside of town with their friend for a few days, no one will ask, shortly, the way they live were in their hand.

It was fine for the others but nor for most of us who really miss the way they live like when they were live with their parents. A lot of discipline, have a rules, leave a message when they went outside of house, etc.

That’s why at a boardinghouse where I live, there is a whiteboard with the list of the member of the house, and when we were outside of the house we must write where we go. Just write it,  go to campus, have a date, or sometimes they write it with the funny words, “waiting a girls that really love me”, its mean they stay at their room for saturday night. Is the famous social network adopt the system from the simple cases like this one?. I don’t know actually.

Actually this is a little funny, I found this news from local newspaper, but its really like a surprised I also this news from the tumblr blogging, from this site soupsoup.

here is this quote from that site.

After Facebook, NU targets mobile phone calls between sexes

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Many have been shocked to learn that 1,700 Muslim clerics of Nahdlatul Ulama (NU) — the largest Muslim organization in Indonesia — have issued an edict banning communication between sexes using mobile phones, and online social networks such as Facebook. …

NU spokesman Abdul Muid Shohib said communication using mobile phones was prone to adultery, especially between the sexes.

“Communicating through mobile phones could lead to extramarital affairs,” Abdul told The Jakarta Post through his mobile.

The only communication allowed between different sexes is that which spreads Islamic teachings, he said.

“We have banned social networking such as Facebook, Friendster and others because they are not used to spread Islamic teachings, but for gossiping,” he said.

Indonesia needs more Job, Isn’t it?

Sometimes peoples do the same job everyday, routines activities make them bored.

I can’t imagine, and its happened when I join with the English course on every friday afternoon, I join with this class just once a week, but suddenly I feel so bored with the English course, and this is still in the half of the entire schedule.

What’s wrong? Does the English not interesting anymore?, actually it is not, but here is just according to my humble opinion, the topic and the material of the course feel the same, there are not challence anymore, our skill not going to anywhere.

We realize that the English language so important to learn, because this is the international language and most people around the world used this as the main tools for communication.

Ough.. god please help me.

At the beginning its so easy not to say anything to someone that you just know recently, let’s say “who is she/he?, nothing to do with me, why I must care?”.

Yes, we say it, because we just know, we just know from the cover not inside to her/his heart, but this condition will suddenly make us surprise when we try to know closer than the first we saw, I will say that this is my personal experience, with the girls that I don’t care at the beginning.

First love, maybe the short message of this post, but its not interest when we start from it and make the story end without any conflict? Isn’t it?.

Too many song inspired by this kind of feeling, too many story too write with this one, but to many listeners still give their ear to hear it, too many readers to buy a legendary novel and ones to make surprising is they know where is the end of the story, romantic or tragic, it doesn’t a matter.

To the person whom become the object of this kind of feeling will be more strange, the could not sleep, feel guilty and everything they do is absolutely wrong, what the hells happened with the person when at the first time they are a strong person but at the end they are so crazy?

It’s a normal, its not so easy to control where the water will fall, fall in love, the stranger idiom that not so easy to handle it.

Finally, I don’t know what happend with us recently, but this letter express our feeling, but the truth is, we just stay here, with our ego.

Dear friend,
I don’t know wether is it true or not (you are the only person who understand about it) but i just feel that all ur email seems like real un sure or too romantic ? I don’t know for sure, i just felt the sadness and something that just hang out somewhere.

Real wise to notice that live always goes on no matter what happen. Just try to remain u about my story few times at past that even we have a lot of bad things that happen to us, as human, we still have to eat if we’re hungry, sleep if we’re sleepy, rest if we’re tired and so on. The days maybe broken that time but you can see that the sun still rise from the east, the wind still blows the smell of morning dew, then the new day come. But one thing for sure is that we still need someone to be come the shoulder to cry on (seems like a famous song…. he he), a friend to rely on and a place to stay on.

With or without our notice we still need someone else, maybe they don’t have to be so pretty or handsome, so understanding or something, because we both know that nothing perfect in this world, we are what we are, with our more and less. So I don’t think we need a lot of reason to more care or definitly in love to the other. Cos love won’t need any reason, friendship won’t need any reason, even for living won’t need any reason. We always have opportunities and choises in our live. So, for me that’s all…

If u love somebody, then say it….
If u really want somebody, then find it….
Isn’t it live so easy and joyfull….??

[smartads]

Like an usual, sometime peoples just learn from the the object that they want to learn, this is classic and and will make the person trap in bore condition.

Actually and if we want it, we can learn from such kind of the fragment of human living, we can learn from the biography of the famous person, learning from the peoples who tell their personal life, and so on, in this case we just need both of our ear to hear.

That’s why the tittle of this posting is learn it from you, yes, from the others person story, the sadness or the happier we can take or make a conclusion that we don’t need feel the sadness, we will know from him/her and we just menghindar from what hey have done.

[smartads]

From now on, I want to change the topic of this blog, yes, I will change this blog to be a personal blog that I can write everything here.

I just wondering that I’m doing something wrong when I tried to register this blog to many blog directories, this blog become a business blog that will give so many tutorial how to earn money from blogging activities was a mistake, for to make it on the line, I need to make this announcement, at least visitor will know from the beginning.

Because of the personal, and I’m not expert to write in English, let’ s say I’ll make this blog also the place for me to practicing my bad English, Oh god please help me!.

No matter how I can write here, the topics, and all the opinion is the personal opinion, and hopefully I can continue to write anything here without need more times to write and to find the references.

“The quality of a person’s life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence, regardless of their chosen field of endeavor.”

~ Vince Lombardi ~

Ones of the famous problem for most politics is keeps the commitments when they were on campaign about their problem an all the mission when they become the leader, and it’s more than in politic arena, in most cases of us.

Don’t make any appointments if we can’t give the best, I don’t know, this could only happened in our cultural or most of us, Indonesia in case. The old traditional Javanese could not say “NO, I can’t!” and this is become the bad words if we say it trough the others.

We just realize that to fulfill the commitments was not so easy, at least this is from my personal opinion, but we must have to say no if we think we should to do it.

This cultural is the opposite, in any cultural, it’s a normal to say no, when they should, and the others will say its okay and no problem, not in ours.

Commitments, it’s not so easy.